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Love beyond the Label

All the recent coverage of the election in America has got me thinking...are we only ever reduced to a label? Republican, Democrat, Gay, Straight...?  How often do we judge or make judgements based on someone's clothes or status or the car they drive?  The outcry from some people in America about the re-election of Obama has left me bewildered.  I am genuinely shocked that so many of them, some people I respect and thought I shared values with, have vehemently rejected him as President of their country.  Being British one might say it's not our right to comment on American politics but it actually has a huge impact on the rest of the world.  And to the rest of the world Obama comes across as an inspiring leader, great orator and genuinely nice man.  But it seems that some people just see the label 'Democrat'.  I am most shocked by Christians who refuse to look beyond this label.  I know that many of his policies appear liberal and of course policies can dictate the futu

Return on Investment

“The economy depends about as much on economists as the weather does on weather forecasters.”   -Jean-Paul Kauffmann This may be so, but it has never been less true than of parents and children.  Children are a product of parenting, whether it is positive or negative. I’m no economist but I would expect to be studying the markets, taking time and researching big decisions before making an investment in anything.  So why is it that as a parent so many of my decisions are based on split second thinking and heat of the moment reactions?  Because I’m dealing with another human being; not stocks and shares or wind and rain.  All are unpredictable, but the impact of a parent on their child has far greater influence, lasting for life not a financial quarter or a season. I’m convinced, though, that the more I know and understand my daughter, and the more she knows and understands me the less frequent emotional decisions become.  I am lucky to spend the majority of my time with my daug

Be My Valentine

I'm not a huge fan of Valentine's Day.  It's over-commercialised and, cynically, an opportunity for greedy businesses to further line their pockets by convicning the general public that a mini cupcake in the shape of a heart is an essential purchase.  In fact, the histoy behing the day is the same as other patron saints; to remember the martyrdom of early christians...not really what the card shops would have us believe since they wouldn't make much money from that kind of marketing. However, the act of showing someone you care for them is often overlooked, whether it be romatically, honouring friendships or simply smiling at a stranger.  And as cliches go this is something that we should remind ourselves of more than once a year.  Lately, I've been trying to build people up and live life so that God's heart is obvious to those around me.  I'm not successful every day, and often those closest to me I fail the most, but with more effort and a huge amount